I can’t understand how a woman can have a child with a man and before the child is even 5 years old, they’ve already had 3 or 4 different boyfriends (or fiancés, whatever). First of all, how do you even have TIME to for all that? Like do you have a full time babysitter just so you can go out and find dudes? Secondly, don’t you realize how badly you’re messing with your child’s head? Having men come in and out of your life like it’s no big deal, like it’s the equivalent of buying a new pair of shoes. I’m not speaking from the experience of having a single mom and of course there are exceptions to every rule, but I just don’t see how that could be healthy mentally.
I’m not saying you should stay with the father of your child(ren) or be alone, I’m just saying it seems a little irresponsible to be completely wrapped up in your relationships while somebody else is teaching your kid how to tie their shoes.